Winning in Life 

 

 

 

 

 

 

"Character is the life of right conduct."
 

 


-Aristotle

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Chelsea Rayne Herman, Ph.D.

Sharon Kay Stoll, Ph.D.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Part I: Center for ETHICS*

(Ethical Theory and Honor in Competition and Sport)

Room 500, Memorial Gym

University of Idaho 83844

 

 

 

 

 

With additional suggestions from Conrad Breitbach.

Copyright 2002. All Right Reserved.

Georgia Athletics Mission
TEAMWORK
INTEGRITY
EXCELLENCE
 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT
 

 

 

LEADERSHIP
 

 

 

 

 


Winning in Life©

 

Philosophy Supporting the Curriculum

 

 

 


The Design: A 45-minute session on task with lecturers and invited speakers, divided into 3 fifteen minute modules per week, supplemented with two 15 minute computer aided interactive lessons per week.                            

 

Introduction:  The project is a two-part program based on consistent, theoretical, and applied research in character education and moral development for over 30 years.   Researchers (Kohlberg, et.al, 1970 - 1992, Lickona, 1991) have maintained that character development is a two-part process.  First, individuals must have a specific, reasoning skill (Part I) to formulate strategies to answer such questions as: Òwhat is right and why is it right?Ó  These reasoning skills build on personal and social values to lay down a strong cognitive base.  Reasoning skills, however, are only skills unless the reasoning process can be placed into behavioral action.  Part II of this project focuses on using the cognitive skills of Part I to help develop behavioral strategies toward solving pressing personal and social issues.  As reasoning is only a skill unless it can function to change behavior, behavior strategies without reasoning are lifeless.  Therefore, the purpose of this project is a two part approach:  Part I is the introduction to important personal and social issues that the athlete will encounter through life, while Part II is the practical application of personal values and social issues into.  Part I focuses on the development of a strong, personal value base, while Part II places the value base into action to resolve pressing social and personal issues.

 

Part I: Critical Examination of Personal and Social Values

 

Critical Examination of Personal and Social Values is based in critical examination and reasoning relative to character and social development such as respect, honor, and responsibility.  This model will focus on two questions of right choice:  ÒIs it [the action] honorable?Ó AND, ÒIs it responsible?Ó  These two questions will be the theme that follows through the development of a personal and social value system that should bring honor to individual as well as in developing leaders of character. 

 

Part II:  Examining and Developing a Plan for Winning in Life - Practicing Character On and Off the Field

 

Examining and Developing a Plan for Winning in Life - Practicing Character On and Off the Field is a practical, hands-on laboratory approach to pressing social issues that impinge on the student athlete.  The project is a cooperative model between student and instructor to enhance personal development.  It is individually designed to assist the student athlete in determining, ÒIs it honorableÓ and ÒIs it responsible?Ó  Topics to be covered through six main topics with ten different laboratory sessions are: (1) Interpersonal Skills, (2) Emotional, Psychological, and Sociological Parameters of Winning And Losing, (3) Sexual Behavior, (3a) Rape Intervention, (3b) Justice, Citizenship, the Law and Sexual Harassment, (4) Substance Abuse, (4a) Alcohol And Drug Abuse, (4b) Performance Enhancing Drug Abuse, (5) Personal Health, (5a) Anger, Stress Management, (5b) Nutrition and Eating Disorders, and (6) Personal Management Skills, (6a) Time Management/ Goal Setting.  The laboratory relies heavily on university resource personnel to give support to the social and

 

personal ramifications of these issues.  Laboratory sessions will be ten in number and will begin approximately the fourth week into the term. 


 

Table of contents

 

 


UGA Mission                                                                                                            2

Winning in Life Philosophy of Curriculum                                                    3

Table of Contents                                                                                                   5

 

Part I: Foundations of Character                                                                     7

            Lesson1: Introduction to Winning in Life                                                    8

            Lesson 2: The Meaning of Character                                                                        10

            Lesson 3: Moral Character                                                                            12

            Lesson 4: Moral Character: Winning in Gamesmanship                            14

            Lesson 5: Being Honorable                                                                            16

            Lesson 6: What is Expected of an Honorable Role Model?                         18

 

Part II: Character in the Classroom                                                                21

            Lesson 7:  Cheating in the Classroom                                                                       22

            Lesson 8: Punctuality                                                                                                24

 

Part III: Character and the Law                                                                                  26

            Lesson 9: Rape, Sexual Assault, Sexual Battery, & Sodomy                                    27

            Lesson 10: Date Rape                                                                                                29

            Lesson 11: Assault & Battery                                                                         30

            Lesson 12: Theft                                                                                             33

            Lesson 13: Illegal Drugs: Marijuana, Cocaine, & Heroin                            36

            Lesson 14: Drinking & Driving                                                                      40

            Lesson 15: Club & Designer Drugs                                                                43

            Lesson 16: Alcohol & Binge Drinking                                                                       45

 

Part IV: Being a Good Teammate                                                                     48

            Lesson 17: Leadership                                                                                                49

            Lesson 18: What is Class? A Lesson in Sportsmanship                                51

            Lesson 19: Loyalty                                                                                         52

            Lesson 20: Hazing                                                                                          54

 

Part V: Performance Enhancing Drugs                                                           56

            Lesson 21: Anabolic Steroids                                                                         57

            Lesson 22: Creatine, hGh, & ÒAndroÓ                                                                       61

            Lesson 23: Stimulants                                                                                                63

 

Part VI: Peak Performance                                                                                65

            Lesson 24: Goal Setting                                                                                 66

            Lesson 25: Nutrition                                                                                      70

            Lesson 26: Injury Prevention                                                                                    72

            Lesson 27: Injury Rehabilitation                                                                  74

 

Part VII: NCAA Rules & Eligibility                                                                   76

            Lesson 28: Boosters                                                                                        77

            Lesson 29: Making the Grade                                                                                   79

 

 

 

 

 

 


Part VIII: Making the Grade                                                                              82

            Lesson 30: Time Management                                                                      83

            Lesson 31: Class Preparation                                                                         85

            Lesson 32: Class Scheduling                                                                          87

            Lesson 33: Choosing a Major                                                                                    90

 

Part IX: Life Beyond the Playing Field                                                                        93

            Lesson 34: Athletic Identity & Transitional Loss                                         94

            Lesson 35: Career Building Blocks                                                                96

 

Part X: Fiscal Responsibility                                                                              98

            Lesson 36: Budgeting for Success                                                                 99

            Lesson 37: Establishing Good Credit                                                                        103

 

Part XI: Community Responsibility                                                                 105

            Lesson 38: Being a Role Model                                                                     106

            Lesson 39: Media Interviews                                                                         107

            Lesson 40: Table Manners & Travel Etiquette                                             109

            Lesson 41: Community Outreach                                                                 110


 

Part I:

Foundations of character

 

 

 


Lesson 1:  Introduction to Winning in Life

 

 


Purpose: Discussion with predominantly first order questions.  Questioning or probing, which is open ended, is focused on moral dimensions and invites respondents to explore their reasoning.  Logic is at the core, though in this case we will be attempting to foster some structure to where we intend to embark throughout the term: heightened moral awareness and social responsibility.  Good and effective questions should help stretch student thinking.    These first order or initial questions introduce teachers and students to the discussion of moral issues and continue to develop moral awareness.  

 

Ask, ÒWhat is a winner?Ó

Let the athletes respond.  Give them a few minutes to explain.  They  will most likely respond with very concrete answers.  Call on at least four or five different guys.

 

Ask, ÒCan winning be applied to all of life, outside of athletics?Ó

                        A.  How? 

                        B.  When?

Again their responses will probably be concrete but the brighter guys will be getting the drift of where you want to go.  DonÕt spend too much time here, approximately 5 minutes.

 

Ask, ÒHow would you define being a winner in life?Ó

Let them respond without commentary, call on several...even if they donÕt have their hand up to be called upon.  Make sure that different personalities are called upon.

 

Is winning related to success? Or money?  Could a man be winner without making big bucks or without having Òlots of thingsÓ? 

                       

DonÕt let them respond to this question but give the following example or one of your own.

                       

IÕm reminded of my uncle Ed, who never made more than minimum wage.  He never owned a new car, and the house he lived in was small.  He never traveled very far from home.  He didnÕt marry until he was 47, and he never had any children.  However, Uncle Ed was loved by his wife and his extended family, and when he died he left no monetary legacy...but his funeral was attended by the scores of Boy Scouts that he lead.  He was a winner in life.

 

Ask, ÒSo what do you think?  Was my uncle Ed just a dufus who missed out on the real things in life  Try to remember what they said earlier about being a winner and use their own words here to play on what is being said.

 

Let them talk a little before asking the following questions:

 

1.      Is it possible to be a winner without making big bucks?

 

2.      How would a man be a loser in life?  Give me an example of a loser in life.

 

This is a reverse of the question above.  Let them dwell on what it means to be a loser. 

 

3.     Can a man be a loser and be successful?

           

 

Unfortunately, there is social commentary that football guys like you can never be successful in life, a winner in life, because of the demands of football.  There is also the perception that you are too narrow-minded, donÕt value your education, and are here just to get a ticket to play pro ball.  However, such is not true... It is a fact that there is a low positive correlation between athletic skill and intellect...that means...You have the smarts to make a Òbig differenceÓ.  Consider the life of UGA Bob McWhorter....

 

Ask, Does anyone know who Bob McWhorter was?Ó

 

HereÕs the scoop on Bob McWhorter.

HB at the University of Georgia

Lexington, Ga.

1913 All American as selected by Parke Davis of the New York Herald.

 

GeorgiaÕs first All-American was a four-time All-Southern halfback and the first person to captain both the football and baseball teams at UGA. McWhorter earned Phi Beta Kappa honors while attending the university.

 

Ask, ÒWhat is a Phi Beta Kappa?  What does it mean to be selected as a Phi Beta Kappa?Ó 

                       

Phi Beta Kappa is an honorary fraternity for the liberal arts based on academic merit in specific courses.   In order to become Phi Beta Kappa one must excel at languages, Latin, French or Greek as well as science and mathematics. 

 

It has been argued that the demands of football today would not permit a young man in Division I football to ever be a Phi Beta Kappa again.  Ask, ÒIs this sort of a statement discriminatory against men like you?  Do you think there is any merit in this statement, that because you play football you could not excel to be a Phi Beta Kappa?Ó

 

During McWhorterÕs day, professional sport was a possibility but McWhorter declined pro baseball offers to study law at the University of Virginia.

 

What has McWhorter got to do with you?   Because of his ability to excel in life, on the field, and in the classroom, you are directly benefited.

 

When you sit down to eat today at McWhorter Hall, remember what it is to be a winner in life, to make a difference, to excel on the field, to excel in the classroom, to excel in life.

 

Assignment for next time:  Ask 5 other athletes what it is to be a winner?  Ask them if they know who Bob McWhorter was?


 

 Lesson 2: The Meaning of Character

 

 


Purpose:  The purpose of this lesson is to explore the meaning of character.  Questions will be first order or initial, but will begin to move into strategies that focus on elements of moral reasoning.  Effective questions should invite students to explore the reasons behind their opinions and to ÒinteractÓ with their teammates in a way that challenges their own pattern of thinking.  This task will begin in lesson 2, and will build through the curriculum.

 

Ask, ÒWhat is character?Ó

 

Instructor:  Call on three different guys and listen to their responses.  Ask if they agree or disagree with each other?   But donÕt give them the answer.  Aristotle called character the ability to know the right and do the right.  Thomas Lickona said that character is the ability to value the right, know the right and do the right, even when no one is watching.  Let them think about it.

 

Ask, ÒWhat is the difference between having character and being a character?Ó

 

Instructor: You may use any example of an individual who has a charming social character, but who also possesses great moral character.  The idea here is to cause the athletes to think about the differences between social character and moral character.  Social character traits are the worth that society places on such attributes as hard work, dedication, sacrifice, intensity, and so forth. Social Values are really focused on individual accomplishments: the athlete is a hard worker, the athlete is intense, the athlete is a good team member, and so forth.   Moral character has to do with how the athlete relates to other human beings and the relative worth placed on such attributes as honesty, justice, responsibility, civility, and decency.  These attributes are focused toward others: The athlete is responsible, the athlete is civil, the athlete plays fair, and so forth.           

 

Having Character or Being a Character:  There is a story about Reggie White, the great defensive end for the Green Bay Packers who has been called by his former Defensive Coordinator, Òthe greatest who ever played the game at that position.Ó  He was ÒbeatingÓ his opponent consistently on every play, and as White did so, he was practicing his ÒvocationÓ as a Baptist minister.  He would pick up his opponent and say, ÒGod Bless You.Ó  The more his opponent got beat, the angrier the opponent became.  Finally, he got into ReggieÕs face and spewed out obscenities as he verbally trashed White.  Reggie calmly listened and then responded, ÒJesus the Christ is coming back, and so am I.  YouÕre not ready for either one of us!Ó

 

Ask, ÒIs White a character or does he have character?  What is the difference between these two qualities, having character and being a character?Ó

 

Call on two or three different athletes.  Let them answer.  If any of them hit upon the concept of character use it in giving them more information such as:  Being a character is usually related to some personality characteristics, being charming, witty, funny, clever and so forth.  However, having character is saying something very specific and important about how that individual treats others.  WhiteÕs Defensive Coordinator, as well as most individuals who have spoken of White, note his moral character.

 

 

Ask the athletes to define moral character. 

 

Pause...let them think about it.  If anyone suggests an answer listen, and then weave the responses they have given you into your definition.  Character is knowing the right and doing the right Ð Aristotle.  Character is knowing, valuing and doing the right-Lickona.

 

Ask, ÒIf character is about knowing, valuing, and doing the right?  What is the ÒrightÓ?  How do you know what is the right?Ó

 

Look at a player, call them by name and ask them...

 

_____, how do you know what is the right thing to do? 

 

They may respond with something like, their parents, perhaps the Bible...maybe some other source.

 

They may answer that ÒrightÓ is flexible...no one knows what is the right.  If you get that answer, ask another player, ÒDo you agree with _________?  Is right something that is relative?Ó

 

Knowing what is right means that there are absolutes, that there are certain things that are always right and certain things that are always wrong.  If there is no such thing as Òalways rightÓ or Òalways wrongÓ then the idea of character is flexible.

 

Ask, ÒCan you think of anything that is always wrong?Ó

 

Let them think...

 

Ask, ÒWhat actions are always wrong?Ó

 

Hopefully they will say, ÒRape is always wrong. Ò Hopefully they will say that child abuse is always wrong.  If they say lying is always wrong...or murder is always wrong...be careful...donÕt go there because there are instances where lying to save a human life would not be wrong.  Save this difficult concept for another day but the rape issue is one that is Òalways wrongÓ as well as Òabusing childrenÓ is always wrong.

 

Ask, ÒWhat is always right?Ó

 

Hopefully they will say something like, being a good Christian is always right or being a decent human being is always right.  If they donÕt say these sort of things you say that such absolutes do exist. 

 

Assignment for next time: Answer for yourself, ÒWhy is both social and moral character important to having a ÒwinningÓ team?Ó